Photo 5 Jun 125 notes nerdydyke:

transparrotfish:

[Image description: Background is 8 piece pie style color split with black and blue alternating. Foreground is a photo of a parrotfish. Top text reads “if you’re not polite you’ll never get your rights, nor be respected”. Bottom text reads “because the way to fight oppression is to lie down and try not to think about it?”. End description.]


Being polite about it doesn’t mean “lying down and trying to not think about it”. If you’re telling people to go die, using broad and offensive generalizations, or triggering people then you’re clearly out line, and that’s when the “well people would probably respect you more if you’d be polite about it” comes into play. Saying “hey, that’s really offensive. Don’t do that. That’s wrong.” Then possibly explain WHY it’s offensive or wrong, you’re still being polite about it without being triggering or offensive. No, you’re not obligated to explain, it’s just a helpful bonus like getting whip cream or marshmallows with your hot chocolate.

Classic misunderstanding. 

nerdydyke:

transparrotfish:

[Image description: Background is 8 piece pie style color split with black and blue alternating. Foreground is a photo of a parrotfish. Top text reads “if you’re not polite you’ll never get your rights, nor be respected”. Bottom text reads “because the way to fight oppression is to lie down and try not to think about it?”. End description.]

Being polite about it doesn’t mean “lying down and trying to not think about it”. If you’re telling people to go die, using broad and offensive generalizations, or triggering people then you’re clearly out line, and that’s when the “well people would probably respect you more if you’d be polite about it” comes into play. Saying “hey, that’s really offensive. Don’t do that. That’s wrong.” Then possibly explain WHY it’s offensive or wrong, you’re still being polite about it without being triggering or offensive. No, you’re not obligated to explain, it’s just a helpful bonus like getting whip cream or marshmallows with your hot chocolate.

Classic misunderstanding

(Source: ftmark)

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    Also applies to activism in general.
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    Yeah because that’s exactly what they mean. Yup. Uh huh. MM HMMMM.
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    Well I consider “polite” to not be a douchebag. So it’s also people having a different idea on what “polite” is and...
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    I pretty much 100% agree with you. I’m just saying that people are completely justified for hating the whole “If you’re...
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    ^THAT Expressing yourself in a friendly manner is not the same as not talking about problematic things. It just isn’t....
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    Classic misunderstanding.
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    Hegemony gets the less privileged nowhere.

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